“FRIEND-BUILDING”
This week Melinda hosts the podcast with guest host Melanie & special guest author Katrina Jackson as they continue our March theme: Platonic Friendship, and discuss how friendships are vital to world-building
EP 226 HOSTS
> MELINDA UTENDORF (she/her) was that child reading Baby-Sitters Club and Sweet Valley High books with a flashlight until 2 a.m. and checking out stacks of books from the library every week. After getting sick of ‘important’ books in her English degree classes, she turned to romance and HEAs and hasn’t looked back since. Melinda spends her time doing puzzles, listening to podcasts, and helping as admin for @RomanceSparksJoy. When she’s not busy with all of that, she’s a freelance editor or talking about books as @MelindaEdits
> MELANIE (she/her) A life-long bookworm, Melanie discovered her love of books with kissing at a pretty early age. Gilbert Blythe was her very first book boyfriend. Since then, she’s developed a love for contemporary, historical, and more recently, paranormal romances. Basically, if it involves humans or vampires or shape shifters or even aliens falling in love and living happily ever after, chances are high she’ll be interested in reading it. When she’s not immersed in a book, she can usually be found baking and hanging out with her husband and daughter. You can find Melanie’s reviews at SmexyBooks (https://smexybooks.com/) and you can follow Melanie on Twitter @Melon_Reads
EP 226 GUEST
> KATRINA JACKSON (she/her) Katrina Jackson is an overworked and perpetually tired professor who misses the sun and outside. She writes diverse erotica and erotic romance, with lots of queer people of color and recently a bunch of old Black women trying to set them up with people and one time a ghost. You can follow Katrina on Twitter @KatrinaJax and on Instagram @KatJacksonBooks
EP 226 DISCUSSION
> We love Kit Rocha and spoke to them about Found Family earlier this season in RBP #209
LISTEN NOW: http://lustandfoundreads.com/rombkpod/ep-209/
> Title: Every New Year (Love at Last #1)
Author: Katrina Jackson
Relation to theme: Group of friends over time
Representation: Black author; interracial m/f couple (Black woman, white man)
Content Warnings: parental illness (cancer)
Bookshop: https://bookshop.org/lists/rombkpod-melinka-recs/
Kindle: https://amzn.to/3s9At8H
Goodreads: https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/48751344-every-new-year
> Title: Office Hours
Author: Katrina Jackson
Relation to theme: Supportive work friends
Representation: Black author; interracial m/f couple (Black woman, Latinx man)
Content Warnings: work burnout, toxic coworkers, systemic abuse
Bookshop: unavailable
Kindle: https://amzn.to/3uCHh00
Goodreads: https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/53186281-office-hours
> Title: The Spies Who Loved Me (The Spies Who Loved Her #1)
Author: Katrina Jackson
Relation to theme: Supportive friends
Representation: Black author; interracial, polyamorous f/f/m triad (Black woman, white woman, white man)
Content Warnings: bosses/employee relationship, murder, non-consensual surveillance, non-consensual kidnapping and bondage, interrogation, torture, dismemberment, consensual kink
Bookshop: https://bookshop.org/lists/rombkpod-melinka-recs/
Kindle: https://amzn.to/3ta1Xfz
Goodreads: https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/40517558-pink-slip
> Title: So Sweet (Sugar Baby #1)
Author: Rebekah Weatherspoon
Relation to theme: Friendship breakup, supportive friend group
Representation: Black author; interracial m/f couple (Black woman, white man)
Content Warnings: sexual assault, toxic friend
Bookshop: https://bookshop.org/lists/rombkpod-melinka-recs/
Kindle: https://amzn.to/3rSfqr3
Goodreads: https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/26209241-so-sweet
NOTE: This book was previously discussed on RBP #205 with Rebekah herself
LISTEN NOW: http://lustandfoundreads.com/rombkpod/ep-205/
> Katrina also loves the friendships in Rebekah’s Beards & Bondage series which is on the angistier end of the romance spectrum
Goodreads: https://www.goodreads.com/series/203119-beards-bondage
> We love novellas! Never hesitate to rec a novella on RBP <3 <3 <3
> Title: A Tale of Two Cities Holiday collection
Author: Alexandra Warren
Relation to theme: Short stories featuring various groups of friends
Representation: Black author; Black m/f couples
Content Warnings: none identified
Bookshop: unavailable
Kindle: https://amzn.to/2OJTIbk
Goodreads: https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/44301706-a-tale-of-two-cities
> Katrina compares these Alexandra Warren novellas to the Before Sunrise film series starring Ethan Hawke and Julie Delpy
IMDB: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0112471/
> Oh no! Nicole Falls didn’t rec Alexandra Warren when she chatted with us in RBP #131
LISTEN NOW: http://lustandfoundreads.com/rombkpod/ep-131/
> Melinda mentions Necole Ryse and her Holiday Shorts series, and stay tuned because Necole is our guest next week!
Goodreads: https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/43786058-chocolate-covered-murder
> Title: Meet Cute Club
Author: Jack Harbon
Relation to theme: Book club
Representation: Multiracial author; interracial m/m couple (Black man, white man)
Content Warnings (from reader Leigh Kramer): recent death of grandmother, grief, Rex’s father is a serial cheater, past homophobia, secondary character is on a diet, secondary character’s mother is in remission (does not say from what), reference to a fictional character who does coke and dies
Bookshop: https://bookshop.org/lists/rombkpod-melinka-recs/
Kindle: https://amzn.to/3s5r95z
Goodreads: https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/51054227-meet-cute-club
> Title: Destiny’s Embrace (Destiny #1)
Author: Beverly Jenkins
Relation to theme: Sister-in-law friendship; supportive community
Representation: Black author; Black m/f couples
Content Warnings: parental neglect and abuse, attempted kidnapping
Bookshop: https://bookshop.org/lists/rombkpod-melinka-recs/
Kindle: https://amzn.to/3wW9D7N
Goodreads: https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/18431604-destiny-s-embrace
NOTE: This series has been discussed multiple times including with Ms. Bev herself
LISTEN NOW: http://lustandfoundreads.com/rombkpod/bonus-ep-jenkinsjuly-ms-bev/
> Title: Go Deep (Unexpected Lovers #1)
Author: Rilzy Adams
Relation to theme: Best friends who hook up
Representation: Black author; Black m/f couple
Content Warnings: off page cheating by heroine’s former fiance
Bookshop: unavailable
Kindle: https://amzn.to/3d9pjMT
Goodreads: https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/54290559-go-deep
NOTE: This book was previously discussed in our 2020 Faves ep
LISTEN NOW: http://lustandfoundreads.com/rombkpod/best-of-2020/
> Title: Like Lovers Do (Girls Trip #2)
Author: Tracey Livesay
Relation to theme: Supportive friend group
Representation: Black author; interracial m/f couple (Black heroine, white hero)
Content Warnings: racism
Bookshop: https://bookshop.org/lists/rombkpod-melinka-recs/
Kindle: https://amzn.to/2OGsBhl
Goodreads: https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/50309161-like-lovers-do
> Title: If She Says Yes
Author: Tasha L. Harrison
Relation to theme: Supportive friend group
Representation: Black author; interracial m/f couple (Black woman, Mexican-American man)
Content Warnings: ex husband was a serial cheater and fathered a son with his mistress, death of husband, past cancer, infertility, past pregnancy loss, classism
Bookshop: unavailable
Kindle: https://amzn.to/326c5dw
Goodreads: https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/56181324-if-she-says-yes
> Title: A Princess in Theory (Reluctant Royals #1)
Author: Alyssa Cole
Relation to theme: Supportive friend group
Representation: Black author; Black m/f couple
Content Warnings: past death of parents, foster care, abandonment, epidemic, poisoning, systemic racism in academia
Bookshop: https://bookshop.org/lists/rombkpod-melinka-recs/
Kindle: https://amzn.to/3mDBeFO
Goodreads: https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/35271238-a-princess-in-theory
NOTE: This series has been discussed many times, including in RBP #225 with Alyssa herself
LISTEN NOW: http://lustandfoundreads.com/rombkpod/ep-225/
> Melinda mentions How to Catch a Queen by Alyssa Cole
Goodreads: https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/49436862-how-to-catch-a-queen
> Title: Honey Girl
Author: Morgan Rogers
Relation to theme: Multiple groups of friends
Representation: Black author; interracial f/f couple (Black woman, Asian woman)
Content Warnings: racism, sexism, parental pressure, parental death, parental abandonment, possibly alcoholism, PTSD, mental health (institutionalized, self harm from anxiety)
Bookshop: https://bookshop.org/lists/rombkpod-melinka-recs/
Kindle: https://amzn.to/3t9lOvC
Goodreads: https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/49362138-honey-girl
NOTE: This book leans towards lesfic with romantic elements
> Title: The Love Study (Love Study #1)
Author: Kris Ripper
Relation to theme: Friend group
Representation: White author; genderqueer rep, non-binary rep
Content Warnings: body dysmorphia, anxiety, panic attacks
Bookshop: https://bookshop.org/lists/rombkpod-melinka-recs/
Kindle: https://amzn.to/2OJTelw
Goodreads: https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/53710329-the-love-study
> Title: Learned Behaviors (Higher Education #1)
Author: Jayce Ellis
Relation to theme: Supportive friends
Representation: Black author; queer, Black m/m couple, bi rep
Content Warnings: divorce
Bookshop: unavailable
Kindle: https://amzn.to/3tgG5zu
Goodreads: https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/55364828-learned-behaviors
> REMINDER: We love Kit Rocha and spoke to them about Found Family earlier this season in RBP #209
LISTEN NOW: http://lustandfoundreads.com/rombkpod/ep-209/
> What are your favorite Platonic Friendships in romance? Tag us @RomBkPod or share with us in the comments
Happy Reading!
EP 226 MUSIC CREDIT
Music: “Lift Off” by Jahzzar
From the Free Music Archive
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